you know, tony definitely said “if you really cared, you’d be here!!” to howard at least once, so it definitely hurt to hear peter say it to him. that look of pain when he steps out of the suit says as much.
Tony Stark: What if someone had died tonight? Different story, right? ‘Cause that’s on you. And if you died, I feel like that’s on me. I don’t need that on my conscious.
Peter Parker: I’m sorry.
Tony Stark: Sorry doesn’t matter.
Peter Parker: I- I just wanted to be like you.
Tony Stark: And I wanted you to be better. Okay, is not working out? I’m gonna need the suit back.
Peter Parker: No- no, please! This is all I have, I’m nothing without the suit!
Tony Stark: If you’re nothing without the suit, then you shouldn’t have it.Spider-Man: Homecoming (2017)